Tuesday, 15 July 2014

How to make your wife say to her friends, ‘’ My husband is the sh**t too! High five for badass husbands’’. (You know what I mean)

Telling Her Daily That She is Loved
Tell your wife daily that you love and appreciate her for what she is doing for you. Everyone wants to be affirmed. Everyone wants to know they are loved. The best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, every day, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug, pinching of the bum or anywhere you like most of her body or holding hands when you walk together.

Doing this cant be that hard, right?

Understanding and Forgiveness
Knowing her faults and dealing with them. There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.

Talk more often, especially when you are outside the home
Don't let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing. Talk about your kids, your jobs, and the weather. Conversation get better, when you try to take interest in what she likes. However, most women want that conversation when you are tired or wanting to watch a game. Learn how you can cope with these issues, when she wants your attention and it’s a way of telling her that she comes first.

Play and share jokes by creating time for her

Make Time for Her and Your Children
Very important. Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following it through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.

Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying "yes" can improve your relationships.

Listen Well
It's really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.

Affection and Kindness
How often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.

Affection for one another tightens bonds
              
Share Household and Child Rearing Responsibilities
One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.

A Day off Now and Then
Don't fuss about your wife taking a day off several times a month. This means that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She deserves this break in her schedule and she needs to provide it for herself to be emotionally and physically healthy.

Commitment to Take Care of Yourself both Physically and Emotionally
Many men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it comes to health issues. This isn't fair to your wife. She is your lover -- not your mother. Take responsibility for your own health concerns.

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