Telling Her
Daily That She is Loved
Tell
your wife daily that you love and appreciate her for what she is doing for you.
Everyone wants to be affirmed. Everyone wants to know they are loved. The best
ways to say "I love
you" are usually in simple, every day, seemingly
unimportant ways like an unexpected hug, pinching of the bum or anywhere you like
most of her body or holding hands when you walk together.
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| Doing this cant be that hard, right? |
Understanding
and Forgiveness
Knowing
her faults and dealing with them. There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one
is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive
her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.
Don't
let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing. Talk about your kids,
your jobs, and the weather. Conversation get better, when you try to take
interest in what she likes. However, most women want that conversation when you
are tired or wanting to watch a game. Learn how you can cope with these issues,
when she wants your attention and it’s a way of telling her that she comes
first.
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| Play and share jokes by creating time for her |
Make Time for
Her and Your Children
Very
important. Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just
happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by
following it through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for
you.
Habitual
negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think
twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying
"yes" can improve your relationships.
Listen Well
It's
really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and
then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants you to not
only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.
Affection and
Kindness
How
often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your
spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being
kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful
marriage.
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| Affection for one another tightens bonds |
Share Household and Child Rearing
Responsibilities
One
of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the
house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of
your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.
A Day off Now
and Then
Don't
fuss about your wife taking a day off several times a month. This means
that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the
house, the pets, and you. She deserves this break in her schedule and she needs
to provide it for herself to be emotionally and physically healthy.
Commitment to Take Care of Yourself both
Physically and Emotionally
Many
men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it comes to health
issues. This isn't fair to your wife. She is your lover -- not your mother.
Take responsibility for your own health concerns.





