Tuesday, 15 July 2014

How to make your wife say to her friends, ‘’ My husband is the sh**t too! High five for badass husbands’’. (You know what I mean)

Telling Her Daily That She is Loved
Tell your wife daily that you love and appreciate her for what she is doing for you. Everyone wants to be affirmed. Everyone wants to know they are loved. The best ways to say "I love you" are usually in simple, every day, seemingly unimportant ways like an unexpected hug, pinching of the bum or anywhere you like most of her body or holding hands when you walk together.

Doing this cant be that hard, right?

Understanding and Forgiveness
Knowing her faults and dealing with them. There will be days when your wife will make mistakes or when she will be difficult to be around. No one is perfect. She both wants and deserves your willingness to understand and forgive her. Remember that no relationship can be sustained without forgiveness.

Talk more often, especially when you are outside the home
Don't let your conversations with your wife dwindle to nothing. Talk about your kids, your jobs, and the weather. Conversation get better, when you try to take interest in what she likes. However, most women want that conversation when you are tired or wanting to watch a game. Learn how you can cope with these issues, when she wants your attention and it’s a way of telling her that she comes first.

Play and share jokes by creating time for her

Make Time for Her and Your Children
Very important. Having quality time with your wife and kids isn't something that just happens. You have to make it happen by not only making the plans but by following it through. Time with those you love has to be a high priority for you.

Habitual negative responses to your wife and kids can push them away from you. Think twice before saying "no" and you will be surprised at how saying "yes" can improve your relationships.

Listen Well
It's really disheartening for a wife to share her thoughts and feelings with her mate and then realize that he didn't actually listen to her. Your wife wants you to not only listen with your ears, but to listen with your heart.

Affection and Kindness
How often do you say "please" or "thank you" or give your spouse an unexpected kiss? Unfortunately, some married couples forget that being kind and affectionate to one another are keys to a successful marriage.

Affection for one another tightens bonds
              
Share Household and Child Rearing Responsibilities
One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.

A Day off Now and Then
Don't fuss about your wife taking a day off several times a month. This means that she will be free from worrying about what is happening with the kids, the house, the pets, and you. She deserves this break in her schedule and she needs to provide it for herself to be emotionally and physically healthy.

Commitment to Take Care of Yourself both Physically and Emotionally
Many men are notorious for not taking care of themselves when it comes to health issues. This isn't fair to your wife. She is your lover -- not your mother. Take responsibility for your own health concerns.

Friday, 11 July 2014

Must-have Fashion Items For Any Man

What you wear tells a lot about you. It shows your mood, style and swag for everyone to see. In case you don’t know, people see you before they hear you. However, for most men, anything goes. Whatever your fashion taste or budget, here’s a handy summary of everything you need, to dress well for any occasion, and not overspend on extraneous clothing:
  • Jeans – preferably medium or dark wash, no rips (those that come with torn styles) or bleach please! Not too baggy and no unnecessary pockets. 
  • Khaki Shorts for casual days or Khaki Trousers - flat front and any tint/color is fine.



  • Button Down Shirts are very necessary A white one is essential, and dark red, any blue, or a medium-to-dark green can dress up with khakis or dress down with jeans.
  • Short-sleeved Polos or heavy weights T- shirts for casual days or weekends. Note that those white undershirts are not outerwears!
  • Black leather belts and black loafers- Your belts and shoes must match. Your swag or style sense is really improved when you wear matching belts and shoes.
  • Compliment the whole look with a killer wrist watch; it doesn't need to be expensive, just go with the flow.


Wednesday, 9 July 2014

Keeping Your Ties in Good Shape

A nice tie can bring a whole outfit together. But ties are delicate. If you don’t take care of them, they can easily become worn and tattered. Instead of being a punctuation point to a sharp suit, an unkempt tie will make you look out of place. Here’s a short run down on how to care for your ties.

A well pampered tie serves any purpose well

Untying your Ties
Care should be taken when removing your tie. The easiest way is to pull the thin end of the tie through the knot. However the shape of your tie is ruined in the process. If you want to make your ties last, remove your ties by following the tie-tying steps in reverse.
How to Store Your Ties
When putting away a tie, many men roll them up, stuff them in a drawer, or lay them over a chair. But ties are made of delicate fabric and are extremely impressionable. Invest in a good tie rack. Tie racks make storing and organizing your ties much easier. Hanging your ties properly makes it easier for the creases and folds from a knot to fall out.
When traveling, fold your ties into fours and place them in your coat pocket. That will help maintain your ties’ shape while traveling.
How to Clean Your Ties
A small stain can ruin any tie, especially a corporate tie . If you do stain your tie, take action quickly. Blot the stain with cold water (mineral water, e.g. club soda) as this prevents it from setting. If you get any greasy materials on your tie, get some talcum powder on your tie quickly. The powder will absorb the grease. After a few hours, brush off the remaining residue and clean with a soft cloth.
If you take your ties into a dry cleaner, specifically request that they don’t press your ties. Most dry cleaners do, but ironing a tie presses down on its rolled edges and ruins its shape.
Easily Removing Wrinkles from Your Ties
As mentioned above, ironing ties should be avoided. But wrinkles still occur. The best way to get the wrinkles out without ruining your tie in the process is using steam. For easy wrinkles, simply hanging your tie in the bathroom while you take a hot shower will do the trick. For more stubborn wrinkles, consider purchasing a hand held steamer. A couple of passes with this baby and your wrinkles are gone.
Invest in a Tie Tack
Tie tacks are nice because they keep your tie in place and out of your food. However, tie tacks leave holes in the fabric of your tie. To avoid these holes, insert the tie tack through the fabric keeper on the back and then through your shirt. No holes, but your tie will be kept in place.
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